"Making It Make Sense" (SM) with Dr. Pamela Brewer
DOES YOUR CHILD NEED TO BE IN THERAPY?
PART 1
by Pamela Brewer
Perhaps the most important thing to remember about taking your child to a clinician who specializes in working with children is that your child deserves every tool you can make available to him/her. There can be many reasons for your child to be evaluated - and starting with your pediatrician is a fine option. If you are concerned about your child achieving reasonable developmental milestones don't be shy about asking questions. If your child is of school age, you can also check in with teachers. If you hear that your child is not behaving well - get specific information about the behavior, how it is different form the behaviors of others and what would be the preferred behavior. This is all information for you to evaluate and to share with the person evaluating your child. Depending on the age of your child, you might want to check in and find out what your child's views are about her/his behavior. And of course, never neglect your own perceptions.
Some of the more common behavioral issues that typically suggest the potential for clinical intervention are:
Change in patterns including socialization, eating, speech, etc.
Change of friends
Increased hostility or agitation
Increased vigilance
School refusal
Sudden change in grades
Do not overlook the possibility of substance use and sexual molestation or assault
Changes in hygiene habits
Changes in sleep habits
Sudden, unexplained change in clothing style
Remember that your child is not a short adult, but a child. What may not seem like a "big deal" to you may be huge for your child...taking the time to determine if your child needs additional support can only serve to help you both